How about "rules are made for the obedience of fools and the guidance of wise men"?
"Tough love" is just the right phrase: love for the rich and privileged, tough for everyone else. Chomsky ..................................................................................................................................................................................... Usually, terrible things that are done with the excuse that progress requires them are not really progress at all, but just terrible things.
Sounds like us lot. Disobedient mob that we are. 
